Loving Narcissists and the Myth of No Contact
November 18, 2009I think that the exhortation of "no contact" with the narcissist, although rightful in its claim, loses something in the execution. If you begin with "no contact" as a strategy or...
View ArticleAfterlife Without Narcissists
January 8, 2010Someone, a long while ago asked what my life was like now, in the aftermath of the aftermath.Actually there isn't much to say, because in my day to day life, I don't think about it.If...
View ArticleKnow Your Limits
December 5, 2011 Where to begin? After 20 years I went back to visit my mother, a year and a half after my father died. Within the last ten years, my parents couldn't find me. Were my parents...
View ArticleTen Ways to Freedom from Narcissists
November 3, 2009 Once in a while, someone writes to me for advice. I do not counsel over the net. But the issues that come up are usually the same ones over and over again because disordered...
View ArticleBe More Than Anonymous
Second update: I have decided to leave comments open to everyone because otherwise Blogger restricts posting. You can use a fake ID without registering. If you choose to post as "anonymous" replies may...
View ArticleBlaming Victim: Codependency Model
"When the term chemical dependent emerged as the new label for both alcoholics and drug addicts, the term codependent was coined to describe their partners (Beattie 1989; Bradshaw 1988; Cermak 1986;...
View ArticleConscience Continuum: Paranoid-Narcissism Spectrum
Narcissism is a somewhat less severe form of psychopathy. "It manifests aggressive, paranoid, and borderline characteristics, but more commonly appears in the form of envy, greed, power lust, an...
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